Man, I feel like shit. Long story short, I just got home from an uneventful night. I was with a girl that I knew from elementary school. We have been friend when we were younger and lost contact for years. A couple months ago I texted her to see how she was doing. She is kinda cute so I was flirty and she responded well. So I invited her to my place and she accepted. The vibe was ok, we watched movies and then she stayed for the night. WE STAYED ALL NIGHT CUDDELING AND NO SEX ! She was waiting for me to make a moove but I was just frozen, trapped in my head, I could't make a move. I feel like a level 1000 pussy. But it is not finsihed. She then invited me to her place (today) and the same fucking thing happened. I don't know how to solve that issue. I just feel like a big pussboy. I feel like the girl was waiting for me to do something but I did nothing. I don't want that thing to happen again... What can I do ?
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I think you need to start worrying about each step of gradual escalation at a time. Like when you are cuddling start rubbing and touching her non chalantly, then step it up into more eye contact, then move up to kissing by saying something like “I really want to kiss you right now” then when you are kissing escalate by touching more and taking off her clothes slowly. It’s all about one step at a time
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thx ! Im going to look into it.
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Yep, just tell yourself when you are in that situation that she wants to fuck.. otherwise you wouldn’t be cuddling and watching netflix in the first place