Honestly I don't know what I was thinking. Probably that the girl handnt replied to the opener so didn't think too much about the reengage. On her profile it said that she has the same birthday as Harry Potter. I was gonna follow up by saying it would be funny to curse at her parents for not waiting a little longer. But I realised it wasn't that funny of a text so bailed...

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IMO you should be asking her something which she's actually interested in, and people really like talking about themselves. Even though she mentions Harry Potter in her bio, I don't think that means its important to her. You're much better off going for something more general like "Are you from x originally?"

With the "Im curious" text, I think punctuation is pretty important here. If you write "I'm curious?", imo it will get a much better response because the girl knows you're curious in something about her, not just making a statement about being a curious person. I personally think it would be better to write "I'm curious, ... (insert whatever you're curious about)"

Personally think the "And the best texter award..." is a bit out of context here, you really didn't give her much to respond to, and it's a little early to be calling her out on it.

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Thanks for your thoughts. Very interesting. Honestly I'm not sure she would have replied to a are you from x question after not replying to the opener but who knows.

Thoughts on where I should go from here?

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