Help me maybe recover from terrible texts

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O

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O

20 Posts (+26), 146 Cmts (+86)

Honestly I don't know what I was thinking. Probably that the girl handnt replied to the opener so didn't think too much about the reengage.

On her profile it said that she has the same birthday as Harry Potter.

I was gonna follow up by saying it would be funny to curse at her parents for not waiting a little longer. But I realised it wasn't that funny of a text so bailed...

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C

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You shouldn't double text, but she actually did end up replying to you, so she's still engaged.

"For what? Maybe you'll find out."

And then see if she responds bitchy or not. Could be time to move on.

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O

20 Posts (+26), 146 Cmts (+86)

No double texts. Every text is sent after more than 72h bc she didn't respond

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C

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That's a good point.

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J

3 Posts (+0), 8 Cmts (+1)

I think in this case his double text isn't bad, because there are a few days gap between the texts.

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H

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IMO you should be asking her something which she's actually interested in, and people really like talking about themselves. Even though she mentions Harry Potter in her bio, I don't think that means its important to her. You're much better off going for something more general like "Are you from x originally?"

With the "Im curious" text, I think punctuation is pretty important here. If you write "I'm curious?", imo it will get a much better response because the girl knows you're curious in something about her, not just making a statement about being a curious person. I personally think it would be better to write "I'm curious, ... (insert whatever you're curious about)"

Personally think the "And the best texter award..." is a bit out of context here, you really didn't give her much to respond to, and it's a little early to be calling her out on it.

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O

20 Posts (+26), 146 Cmts (+86)

Thanks for your thoughts. Very interesting. Honestly I'm not sure she would have replied to a are you from x question after not replying to the opener but who knows.

Thoughts on where I should go from here?

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J

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Women take everything personally, dude. Don't tease them until they get to know your sense of humor.

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O

20 Posts (+26), 146 Cmts (+86)

Yea you are right. Tbh the ones that don't reply to the opener I just throw shit at the wall & see what sticks.

Thoughts on where to go from here?

Also thoughts in general for dealing with chicks that don't reply to the opener?

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