One of the most sexually frustrating experiences is building up sexual tension over text or Snapchat, getting to a point where we are sending nudes and talking about fucking, and then waking up the next morning, trying to set up a time to hang and the girl either flakes or seems completely uninterested. Is this the female version of post-nut clarity? In the moment they are obviously at least sexually intrigued. Has anyone else experienced this, and if so, what are the ways to prevent this type of behavior?

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I feel you man, thanks for the advice. The animal instincts kick in and I end up pushing things to that point because I get impatient and want the sexual stimulation/gratification immediately. I feel like incorporating sexting, if you're looking for a hookup/fwb, is a good thing because it screens for sexual interest/compatibility and also lets the girl know that if we link we are fucking. That said, with the last two girls I've sexted, one was looking for a fwb and the other wanted to have a threeway with me and a friend of hers, both have made it difficult to meet, so I don't really know whats going on there.

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