I can get from match to date easily but I have trouble getting from the date to my bed. I just got out of a long term relationship and still new to dating. So far from bumble I've gone out with 2 girls (Sarah and Lisa). With Sarah, we went out to a bar and date went well, I invited her back to my place and she said not on the first date. We made out at the end and set up a second. Second date went well at a bar. I invited her back and she said she wants to wait still but she wants another date. We made out again and she left. Third date is coming up but I'm taking her to the park this time cause the bar is too expensive. With Lisa, I took her to the bar. Date went well and I invited her back to my place but she said she wants to get to know me more first. We made out at the end and she left. Second date is coming up at another bar. Both times I had serious make out sessions with tongue and grabbing but they both want more dates first. How long does it take you guys?
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There's some stuff here for you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gATOcJ36KTk
Basically it gets harder because she gets to thinking "there's probably a reason I didn't sleep with him on the first date, I'll just stick with not sleeping with him".
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Thanks for the link! Very useful! And yeah what you say does make sense. I managed to lock down a same day meetup with a girl because she's going on vacation for a week. I said "are you feeling spontaneous? Let's meet tonight at bar at 7pm". She said okay that works.
Bro I can't fuck this up. I need to get her back to my place lol. I'm not gonna ask anymore. Just gonna say let's get out of here and then lead her back to my place. Assume she wants to go. Not ask if she wants to go.