I was at a bar on Tuesday and one of the girls that work there approached me and asked me about my glasses 👓, she was cool and friendly so minutes later I approach her and do small talk and then I proceed to get her number. A couple beers later Im hitting on the bartender lol smh and then I left shortly after. I texted the girl yesterday but still no response. I’m thinking the bartender probably told her I tried hitting on her so maybe that’s why she’s not responding? What do y’all think? And if that’s the case how can I text her again? I’m thinking about waiting until Saturday before I text her again cause I wanna give her at least two days

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Lol yeah I definitely won’t bring up the bartender thing. What do you mean that can work in my favor? In what way? Im thinking chicks won’t wanna mess with a dude who is hitting on them and their coworkers

And how should I message her again? Should I hit her with the Gosling meme or with “Hi Vanessa how are you? Would you still like to hang out? If not that’s totally cool” cause before she gave me her number I told her we should hang out sometime and she said “yes definitely”

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it can work in your favor because a girl sees that other girls are interested in you which makes you attractive, in terms of what to follow up with ill have to know what your initial text was

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Ahh, yes I agree. Here’s the initial text and the second text two days later.. maybe I should’ve waited a few days before contacting her the first time. I messaged her the next day after getting the number lol smh

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