I was at a bar on Tuesday and one of the girls that work there approached me and asked me about my glasses š, she was cool and friendly so minutes later I approach her and do small talk and then I proceed to get her number. A couple beers later Im hitting on the bartender lol smh and then I left shortly after. I texted the girl yesterday but still no response. Iām thinking the bartender probably told her I tried hitting on her so maybe thatās why sheās not responding? What do yāall think? And if thatās the case how can I text her again? Iām thinking about waiting until Saturday before I text her again cause I wanna give her at least two days
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there's a possibility its that but more often than not, that can actually work in your favor. More likely is that she wasn't interested initially. Either way give it 2 days. Don't bringup the bartender thing unless she brings it up
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Lol yeah I definitely wonāt bring up the bartender thing. What do you mean that can work in my favor? In what way? Im thinking chicks wonāt wanna mess with a dude who is hitting on them and their coworkers
And how should I message her again? Should I hit her with the Gosling meme or with āHi Vanessa how are you? Would you still like to hang out? If not thatās totally coolā cause before she gave me her number I told her we should hang out sometime and she said āyes definitelyā
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it can work in your favor because a girl sees that other girls are interested in you which makes you attractive, in terms of what to follow up with ill have to know what your initial text was