Nice. Would love to get your opinion on this. I matched with her from Tinder and she gave the excuse of not being on Tinder much and wouldn't give her number, but then said she's more active on FB, so we moved over to messenger.

I didn't want to break rapport so when she says she didnt drink alcohol i just made it seem like "Ok great! If you said you drink alcohol I would have had to walk away" - because actually I dont really care if she drinks or not. I don't care to drink myself, so its good for me i dont need to pretend to drink wine. what do you think about this?

Another thing is when she agrees to meet, but she throws in after "But i’m just looking for new friends" how do you handle this? Just agree with meeting her in real life but then showing intent anyways? Showing her with my non verbals my intentions (body language, eye contact?)
I don't want to meet her and then she keeps giving me this excuse of "No. I told you I'm only looking for friends" unless I just give it a chance and if she does pull this on me then just straight up tell her "I'm not feeling this" and leave?