First of all thank you for the most sensible advice I've seen on the internet in regards to Tinder. It's done wonders for my sex life! I was hoping someone might be able to help? I put BDSM in my tinder bio and my matches increased a lot also the quality of the women. The girls have been opening me, double and triple texting and asking about BDSM and saying they are SUBS. The problem is I have literally no idea about BDSM and have no idea what to say! Should I be more sexual in the messages than normal? Also, I feel like I might not be able to give them what they are looking for when they come over. Any help is appreciated G
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You shouldn't include BDSM if you're not into it or a Dom yourself man. That's faking big time and not authentic at all. Girls will notice that sooner or later. Just find other ways to polarize sexually
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What better way to expand your horizons? If you can get a girl who is a sub to come over and you are not super beta and know the basics of choking & spanking you should be able to close
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UPDATE: My handcuffs have just arrived in the post
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Thats a fair point. I definitely wouldn't want to fake anything. But I am naturally dominant and am curious about finding out more about BDSM
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Then get into it but until then I would use a different sexual way. I believe in Authenticity over everything