Hi guys, I haven't been on Tinder in a while but I'm in an open relationship right now so I'm getting back into it. I would like to get feedback on some pictures. I'm also wondering how to mention in my bio that I'm in an open relationship without scaring away lots of girls. I don't want to lie about it. Any help appreciated :)
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5y ago
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Your pictures are pretty decent bro. The only one I'd take out is the first one because it looks a bit posed. In terms of the open relationship, I don't recommend putting that in the bio. It will scare a lot of chicks off. Much better to bring it up if it comes up. If you have other pics, feel free to post them in the comments and we'll take a look
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Here are two more pics, what do you think?
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These both look posed as well man
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So as an experiment I tried adding it to my bio (see below). After 30 hours on Tinder I got about 50 likes and 25 matches, on Bumble I got 10 matches from 15 likes after about 10 hours. If it wasn't in my bio I probably would have gotten a lot more but who knows. Interestingly most girls are my age (24 - 25) or older. I guess older girls know that they just want sex and appreciate that I'm not going to be needy or fall in love after reading that I'm in an open relationship. What do you think?
My bio is similar to yours (but translated into German):
1.80 | Munich
In an open relationship
My passion is traveling around the world and seductively whispering Italian in your ear
Looking for a girl who enjoys a combination of rough and sensual
Strength: mixing cocktails, great oral skills, being dominant
Weaknesses: nice smile and booty
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Very interesting. I would venture to say though, if you take the "In an open relationship" part out, you'd do better. The majority of chicks I know even though they're DTF would swipe left on that