Pictures and mentioning that I'm in an open relationship.
Hi guys,
I haven't been on Tinder in a while but I'm in an open relationship right now so I'm getting back into it.
I would like to get feedback on some pictures. I'm also wondering how to mention in my bio that I'm in an open relationship without scaring away lots of girls. I don't want to lie about it.
Any help appreciated :)
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Dump the second one with the winter hat. I think the best are your two action shots (with the eagle and with the cave pick with your back showing) but you obviously can't lead with those two pics so I agree with leading with the wine one.
Do girls care when you put in your profile that your in an open relationship? I could see you missing out on a lot of chics because of that. Maybe I am just not alpha enough to feel comfortable with pulling it off but I feel like open relationships benefit the girl a lot more since guys don't give a fuck if the girl is dating someone but a lot of girls do care about that.
Curious to hear your experience with it.
Yeah you are right. My girlfriend had Tinder once and mentoined that she was in an open relationship in her bio. She got about 30 super likes in the first 5 to 6 hours and a shit ton of likes.
I described my experience so far in a comment below if you want to check it out.
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The wine photo is your best.
Then the eagle.
The first one is probably a missed opportunity to be "caught in the moment" and not look at the camera. Maybe not really smiling, but not really mad either.
Not a fan of the one of you in bulky clothing and the one of you sitting on a bench and smiling.
The shirt off is a great DHV photo.
As for the bio - if you want to mention it, sure, just know you're filtering out a certain amount of girls. Unless what you're looking for is a threesome partner etc.
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The pictures are pretty good, the second one is a little eh - awkward smile, etc. but one of you with wine is good and the shirtless one displays good DHV. I honestly wouldn't mention the open relationship thing in the bio because it does scare a lot of girls away lmao. It's like if you're super kinky you don't put all the specifics in your bio because it could scare some girls away and make them think you're only on tinder for certain things. As for mentioning it, I might do it in conversation or not at all, to be honest. If things progress with a girl you could always be upfront about it. The situation is different if you're looking for a threesome or something lmao.
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Your pictures are pretty decent bro. The only one I'd take out is the first one because it looks a bit posed. In terms of the open relationship, I don't recommend putting that in the bio. It will scare a lot of chicks off. Much better to bring it up if it comes up. If you have other pics, feel free to post them in the comments and we'll take a look
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Here are two more pics, what do you think?
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393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
These both look posed as well man
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So as an experiment I tried adding it to my bio (see below). After 30 hours on Tinder I got about 50 likes and 25 matches, on Bumble I got 10 matches from 15 likes after about 10 hours. If it wasn't in my bio I probably would have gotten a lot more but who knows. Interestingly most girls are my age (24 - 25) or older. I guess older girls know that they just want sex and appreciate that I'm not going to be needy or fall in love after reading that I'm in an open relationship. What do you think?
My bio is similar to yours (but translated into German):
1.80 | Munich
In an open relationship
My passion is traveling around the world and seductively whispering Italian in your ear
Looking for a girl who enjoys a combination of rough and sensual
Strength: mixing cocktails, great oral skills, being dominant
Weaknesses: nice smile and booty
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Very interesting. I would venture to say though, if you take the "In an open relationship" part out, you'd do better. The majority of chicks I know even though they're DTF would swipe left on that