Welcome to the weekly live Q&A with IndianPE Have all your questions answered in real time by the creator of PWF and Indian PE (If you're not familiar with him, check out this 2 part interview I did with him).. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIN8SOjOd4U This will start Sunday August 18th at 6pm EST and go for 2 hours. Just write your questions below in this post. See you guys then :) Alex
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The learning process - specifically the wit and humor. Indian PE talked about "boring conversation" as one of the biggest beginner mistakes. How do you learn to not have boring conversation? I stuggle to make a topic or to take what she has given and make it more emotionally engaging and interesting to the girl when I use any of my own lines. I don't want to be dependent on specific lines - I want to be able to generate them everyday for the specific conversation, so I can actually just use these skills with texting anyone. Like a girl I'm already sleeping with or even just a girl that's a friend or even guys. You know? What's the best way to learn the principles and make them a part of who you are? (It seems like Indian PE has completely internalized the right mindset.)
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Well. I started off with completely being okay with blowing out a bunch of leads. It's the same as cold approach. Even in Vegas, you must have observed that Alex and Mark open I don't know up to 20 girls before they take a girl home, it's the same. It's being completely okay with fucking up. All I know is I have specific goals to try to get to. And if the conversation moves away from my main motive, I try to get it back. If it's too boring, I either DHV myself or subtly sexualize. Most girls I meet online always tell that they enjoyed texting me and liked how I wasn't too pushy for the meet. I learnt in the recent past in trying to reframe everything as positive. I was able to do that quick over text but not so much in cold approach since there's too much to focus on
There's sooo many LRs powered by me now and these lines are easy to understand the context of if you just notice what those lines resulted in. Did they DHV? Did they move to soft close? OR did they sexualize. Usually it's one or more of them. And if not, it's to hold the value and not qualify yourself
Let me know if I was clear enough. lol
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Do you struggle being witty/funny with your closest guy friends? If the answer is no, then the issue is you're just stifling yourself in these other social situations and as soon as you can learn to unstifle yourself, then the issue will take care of itself.
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Actually I don't have any close guy friends (l say this in a genuine factual way) and yes I do struggle to be witty funny with even friends. When I've been around some of the guys from game on a bootcamp and I am in that environment for a little while, it starts to come out much more. But as soon as I leave, I lose it. Probably a big part of that is I've isolated myself a lot for years while I worked on personal issues in my life, and school, and my career, and prior to that I struggled to maintain friendships all through my childhood. So for me this seems to be a deeper issue than just unstifling myself. I literally don't think of things to say in the first place in almost any situation. Every now and again when I'm feeling really good about myself and my stress is very low, I will get into "state" where I'm wittier and funny with people. But it's rare and not within my control so to speak.
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This!
How does Indian PE do it? Is it the Kombucha.
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Some Naked Whey protein shakes do the trick ;)