I’m getting matches thanks to you guys but the next thing is I can’t seem to get hard closure. I matched with 2 girls and they were down to meet but when I chose a place they would suggest a different location which was more convenient for them. I didn’t want to frame myself as a beta so I said no and they just didn’t respond anymore. Is it better to adjust to them in this case or should I hold my ground and find a girl that would invest in coming to where I choose?

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Kazuki Matsumura Avatar

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Davis B Avatar

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Go for the wine close at first. If she's not down for that then meet at a bar closest to your place as possible, so you can pull. If she's still not down to drive there then she is a low-interest girl. You will have to decide whether or not the girl is hot enough for you to drive to her side of town to meetup.

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Kazuki Matsumura Avatar

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What do you mean by so you can pull.

I am using the wine soft close and they are down but when it comes to choosing the place they tend to chose a place close to them.

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T Rex Avatar

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Yeah that usually means she doesn't have high interest or views you as high value enough. She would surely make the long drive for a movie star, right?

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