So I’m getting matches but...
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I’m getting matches thanks to you guys but the next thing is I can’t seem to get hard closure.
I matched with 2 girls and they were down to meet but when I chose a place they would suggest a different location which was more convenient for them.
I didn’t want to frame myself as a beta so I said no and they just didn’t respond anymore.
Is it better to adjust to them in this case or should I hold my ground and find a girl that would invest in coming to where I choose?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Post some screenshot examples man & I'll take a look. But generally speaking, a reasonable compromise does not make you a beta. It's quite often that me & the chick go back and forth a bit on the logistics.
4 Posts (-1), 18 Cmts (-3)
Gotcha. Thanks bro.
Made the hard closure but now is how will I be able to take her to a hotel to have some pop tang.
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41 Posts (+235), 354 Cmts (+209)
Go for the wine close at first. If she's not down for that then meet at a bar closest to your place as possible, so you can pull. If she's still not down to drive there then she is a low-interest girl. You will have to decide whether or not the girl is hot enough for you to drive to her side of town to meetup.
4 Posts (-1), 18 Cmts (-3)
What do you mean by so you can pull.
I am using the wine soft close and they are down but when it comes to choosing the place they tend to chose a place close to them.
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Yeah that usually means she doesn't have high interest or views you as high value enough. She would surely make the long drive for a movie star, right?
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