I recently met this girl who moved here a few months ago from Colombia. Her English is poor, but we can communicate decently well (using google translate sometimes). I have two questions: (1) How do you sexually escalate when there's a language barrier like this? I found that a joke or comment of any type was lost in translation. It was very difficult to be flirty. (2) How much should you (or how do you) sexualize with a Colombian girl in particular? I've heard that sleeping around is more stigmatized in Colombia. In addition, she doesn't like to drink. She's a good quality girl so I wouldn't mind waiting to escalate things, but I have no idea how to go about it.
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This may be not be a good long term solution, but I'm a native spanish speaker so I can help you say stuff to her in a coloquial way that may help break that cultural barrier a bit.
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That would help. Are there flirty phrases that I can use? I only have "hola linda" and "hola hermosa" lol.
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If you show me your conversation thus far I may be able to draft something contextually relevant. Do you know which part of Colombia is she from? That'll change the type of phrases that we'd use.