I recently met this girl who moved here a few months ago from Colombia. Her English is poor, but we can communicate decently well (using google translate sometimes). I have two questions: (1) How do you sexually escalate when there's a language barrier like this? I found that a joke or comment of any type was lost in translation. It was very difficult to be flirty. (2) How much should you (or how do you) sexualize with a Colombian girl in particular? I've heard that sleeping around is more stigmatized in Colombia. In addition, she doesn't like to drink. She's a good quality girl so I wouldn't mind waiting to escalate things, but I have no idea how to go about it.
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If you show me your conversation thus far I may be able to draft something contextually relevant. Do you know which part of Colombia is she from? That'll change the type of phrases that we'd use.
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Most of our conversations are in person. I'm trying to figure out how to flirt on the date. She's from Quibdo, if that helps.
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OK so I'd add "hola mamacita" (pronounced "ma-ma-see-tah") which is a flirty equivalent of "gorgeous" or "hottie". To make her laugh, whenever you'd say "that's cool!" say "que chimba!" (pronounced "kae" "cheemba" (make the "ch" sound as in "chewing" anytime you see "ch" in spanish). I know that's gonna make her laugh because only Colombians use that expression and it'll be extra special coming from a "gringo". It's also usually funny to hear anyone say it so I think that's a good starter.