Met her on Hinge 3 weeks ago. We did a Facetime, then went on a walk and had sex. The sex was pretty good and afterward we cuddled for 30 min or so. While cuddling, she mentioned she'd have to head back home to feed her cats at some point. Then she asked me if I was tired multiple times. I eventually said yes, so she got dressed, I walked her out and told her to text me when she got home (it was pretty late and she had to drive 30 min). I attached the texting that ensued. To glean the lessons from this interaction, I'd like to know what I could have done better: Should I have offered to let her stay over?(I know Alex mentions this increases his chances of retention in the product) Should I have made more of an effort to bang again despite being tired? (Alex also states this helps with retention) Was it a mistake to wait 4 days to reach out again? Would love some outside perspective, thanks.

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Interesting feedback and insight into how women think - an area that fascinates me. Reading between the lines, what led me to believe that Corona was a surface level objection was the following:

  1. She semi-ghosted me right off the bat.
  2. Her roommate knew she was going on the walk, so her wrath doesn't add up. Why get upset if you knew about it beforehand?
  3. When she states "that can't happen again" - those words indicate some sort of anger to me, not the words a girl that would like to continue hanging out after quarantine is over would choose.
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how was the sex? girls can also get buyer's remorse if she was looking for strictly a fulfilling sexual experience and didn't get it

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We had sex once for about an hour. I would say it was pretty good, not mind blowing though.

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