hi there, need help with something I met a chick that is into anime like me and she came to my place the first time we dated we didn't have sex but after 2 meetings we did and it was very good but for some reason the more time went on, the less invested she became she sent me more messages and ask more for validation BEFORE we even had some kind of sexual interaction we did had a setback (because of a stupid comment i made about me not wanting her for anything serious) but i fixed it by saying something like "i was in a bad day and although im not going to apologize for it (it is what it is) i do understand that i came off a bit weird and all i meant is im not planning anything i want our thing to progress naturally" and we laughed about it and everything was ok
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thats fine i fixed it by saying i was in a shitty day and although im not going to apologize for it because this is who i am and she got to see me at my worst and this is fine
we are fuck buddies now :)
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as usual I fucked it up with the lack of control over my sex drive...
she came to me few days ago and asked to not have sex because she is in pain and need to get up early and she slept 2 hours the night before and I pushed for it anyway
we did had sex but later she wasn't sure about what we had because I was like an teenager that all he care about is sex (I have insane labido and very passionate and this is why I'm very very good at sex even though I don't have a lot of experience)
so we did enjoy it but after that she started having doubts about it because I was too pushy and it hurt her
we did have a conversation about it (to remove any bad blood between us, i did apologized but not in a needy way and I didn't make the conversation between us heavier than it should be) but she wasn't the same and she said she want to think about it
I decided to end it myself instead of waiting for her to say if she want to get back together because I know that even if she did want to get back together it will not be the same
it was a nice lead though :\ a perfect combination between fun in bed and general chemistry