Not sure if I steered it too serious here, but wanted to get past that first part. Thoughts on where to go from here?
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Not sure if I steered it too serious here, but wanted to get past that first part. Thoughts on where to go from here?
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Interesting, I went with the sexy sweatpants line. So not a shit test. I took it like, she’s trying to dictate the kind of hangout. She has been very brief before this. Then she gave me her number with text in front of it in response to one of my questions about availability
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If we want to dig into it... she's communicating a few things: she finds your reply amusing (which ought to be what you intended), she's confirming that you're not actually offering a 'date' (which you better not be), and she's letting you know that she meets people on the regular (which is great news for you and should not be a threat to your frame). You got her to engage! You got her to confirm that a meetup is on the cards! Quit snatching defeat from the jaws of victory ;)
edit: the 'romantic date' thing is a magical shared joke, that lets you make it clear that your meetup is not platonic, and put across some attractive and high-value things, without going overtly sexual and getting blown out, without seeming arrogant and conceited, and while showing that you're a sophisticated person who 'gets it'. If you think a date is seriously being proposed, and you're defending some flowers and a movie shit, you don't get it :)
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Well I didn’t set this one up great, so, I don’t know that she’s on that page, I’m thinking she’s just down to meet . Here’s the whole convo for context
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