Original Thread: This girl is quality so I definitely want her on my rotation. We had really great sex, played out some of her kinks, and gave her two orgasms (also according to her I was her biggest). She's in LA until mid August and then she'll be in San Francisco. I'm in Northern California right now, but I'm going to visit one of my main girls in LA near where she's staying for a month myself. This is our text conversation after we banged. Any suggestions on what to do now and what I could improve on would be greatly appreciated! Me: That was fire emoji 2x Her: Yup :') drove us home the whole way. Was having flashbacks hahaha Me: Ooh.. hot. How does it feel to be home? Get lots of sleep? Her: I'm at my desk at work feelin like death hahaha Me: You should picture some things we could do on that desk. Might make you feel a little better ;) Her: Stooop Sad emoji you felt so good Me: Then why do you want me to stop? sly/confidence emoji Her: Hahaha Whisper/quiet face emoji Me later in the day: Btw, I like that you're ambitious and have depth. It's hard to find girls who are solid and cool. Her: Wow anime eyes emoji thank you :') Me one and a half days later: So, you been thinking of me? :) Her: I was and i was busyyyy steamed face emoji hahaha Me: Ooh.. good girl wink emoji. What part of LA are you staying again? Her: 2 tongue out front emojis by USC subletting a grungy lil studio til August Me: Within next two weeks I'm headed to Torrance/PV area to visit a couple friends for about a month :) (this is relatively close to her) Her: Oh nice! Maybe I'll see you then Me: What's your work schedule usually like? All advice is appreciated. Thanks! My update in that post: Lol, update. She replied with "9:15 ish til before 6 but might adjust soon because of an assignment! Didn't have service sat/sun cuz i was camping haha" She doesn't say whether it's mon-fri or what days it usually is, but I can potentially guess from her camping example that she is mon-fri. Should I wait to lock in more specific plans for when it's getting closer to time? Any comments/suggestions/feedback from anything that's happened so far is of course welcome. Thanks! Chat Updates: Me: Sounds good + for sure! Nice :). How was your trip? Her: Fun! But my back hurt a lottt after. Will only camp again if I'm sleeping on memory foam angel emoji Me: Lol, I thought you liked it a little rough wink emoji Her: I do!! Not when a rock hard air mattress is the one doing the damage hahahah Me: Laughing crying emoji. Ya, I've learned to bring at least a couple pads to avoid that trouble haha Last text was Wed, this is Sat 10 AM Me: Catching up on rest yet or full summer mode? Sun emojiSunglasses face emoji Her: Going to concern tonight so no rest hehe Me: Nice, sounds fun and be safe :). Btw, would it be easier for you to hang out the week of the 26th or the week of the 2nd? I don't like my last text as I could have asked more about her concert first. That was Sat night, this is Monday night. Also, the reason I was trying to figure this out was I was about to have a video chat with the girl I'm going to visit primarily and I was wondering what date to tell her I arrive. If it was possible, I was going to see the new girl first and then spend the longer visit with the first girl as planned. Any thoughts would be appreciated as always! Thanks, Robert

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I ended up sending her a picture of my nephew playing with some golden wire that was on a bottle of wine saying: My nephew was playing with the gold wire on the bottle and it reminded me of you on the 4th fire emoji Sly face emoji (she had this golden wire she was wearing on her while in a bikini, when she undressed in the hotel room, she was like maybe ill keep this on ;) ;) )

She responded within an hour with : Hahahahha hushh shh face emoji shh face emoji laughing crying emoji

This is relatively low investment on her part. I'm thinking of just waiting a few days and then reopening her with a text asking if she's more free on week or weekend and then trying to nail down plans and kinda bailing on keeping her warm through text until then for the most part. Reasonable approach? Thanks for all the help so far and I'm always shouting you out when talking to guys about online or text game!

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Yeah man. I would hit her up maybe like July 31st or Aug1st and lock in a day and time. Get the convo going first before you do though. And thank you for the recommendations. Much appreciated!

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Np! Thank you for the realness. You say get the convo going again before locking in a day and time on those days. Our plans were tentatively for the week of the 2nd so I would like to find out what's good not too late in the game. Any suggestions on some things you might say before locking in day/time? I hadn't planned on messaging anything other than meetup logistics next. Her second time using the hush emojis/this msg theme when I use sexual callbacks is slightly perplexing. I don't know if she's worried I might say the wrong thing at wrong time from her anti-slut defense perspective/if there's some other hidden message being conveyed, or if I'm reading too much into it and it's just more playful/doesn't mean anything. Also thinking she's ghosted me twice now and so many ways to lose while texting that it might be more prudent to minimize the amount of texts to meetup lmao

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