Girl I banged on 4th not responding to txt after being quick to respond before update

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This girl is quality so I definitely want her on my rotation. We had really great sex, played out some of her kinks, and gave her two orgasms (also according to her I was her biggest). She's in LA until mid August and then she'll be in San Francisco. I'm in Northern California right now, but I'm going to visit one of my main girls in LA near where she's staying for a month myself. This is our text conversation after we banged. Any suggestions on what to do now and what I could improve on would be greatly appreciated!

Me: That was fire emoji 2x

Her: Yup :') drove us home the whole way. Was having flashbacks hahaha

Me: Ooh.. hot. How does it feel to be home? Get lots of sleep?

Her: I'm at my desk at work feelin like death hahaha

Me: You should picture some things we could do on that desk. Might make you feel a little better ;)

Her: Stooop Sad emoji you felt so good

Me: Then why do you want me to stop? sly/confidence emoji

Her: Hahaha Whisper/quiet face emoji

Me later in the day: Btw, I like that you're ambitious and have depth. It's hard to find girls who are solid and cool.

Her: Wow anime eyes emoji thank you :')

Me one and a half days later: So, you been thinking of me? :)

Her: I was and i was busyyyy steamed face emoji hahaha

Me: Ooh.. good girl wink emoji. What part of LA are you staying again?

Her: 2 tongue out front emojis by USC subletting a grungy lil studio til August

Me: Within next two weeks I'm headed to Torrance/PV area to visit a couple friends for about a month :) (this is relatively close to her)

Her: Oh nice! Maybe I'll see you then

Me: What's your work schedule usually like?

All advice is appreciated. Thanks!

My update in that post: Lol, update. She replied with "9:15 ish til before 6 but might adjust soon because of an assignment! Didn't have service sat/sun cuz i was camping haha"

She doesn't say whether it's mon-fri or what days it usually is, but I can potentially guess from her camping example that she is mon-fri. Should I wait to lock in more specific plans for when it's getting closer to time? Any comments/suggestions/feedback from anything that's happened so far is of course welcome. Thanks!

Chat Updates:

Me: Sounds good + for sure! Nice :). How was your trip?

Her: Fun! But my back hurt a lottt after. Will only camp again if I'm sleeping on memory foam angel emoji

Me: Lol, I thought you liked it a little rough wink emoji

Her: I do!! Not when a rock hard air mattress is the one doing the damage hahahah

Me: Laughing crying emoji. Ya, I've learned to bring at least a couple pads to avoid that trouble haha

Last text was Wed, this is Sat 10 AM

Me: Catching up on rest yet or full summer mode? Sun emoji**Sunglasses face emoji

Her: Going to concern tonight so no rest hehe

Me: Nice, sounds fun and be safe :). Btw, would it be easier for you to hang out the week of the 26th or the week of the 2nd?

I don't like my last text as I could have asked more about her concert first. That was Sat night, this is Monday night. Also, the reason I was trying to figure this out was I was about to have a video chat with the girl I'm going to visit primarily and I was wondering what date to tell her I arrive. If it was possible, I was going to see the new girl first and then spend the longer visit with the first girl as planned. Any thoughts would be appreciated as always!

Thanks,
Robert

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I would just wait a few days and if you don't hear from her, hit her with "Don't think too hard now"

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Thanks Alex! Good advice + will do :)

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Update, so on Wed I used the line: "Don't think too hard now" and she replied oh ahahha the week of the 2nd would be better!

My reply to that was: How was the concert btw? Who'd you see? (didn't check her ig story). I get the feeling I might get ghosted here and my default plan was going to be the award for best texter goes to.. Does this seem like a reasonable next move? Thanks again :)

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Yeah man. I would not have texted her about the concert. Who gives a shit. When she said the week of the 2nd, and all you should have done was set a date. It was like she was giving you a lay up and you were going for the 3 pointer. I would probably wait a week at this point and then re-engage with the "Yo sexy" or a meme or something like that

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