How many matches do you guys get a day, or a week? My photos are not the best, I'll have to hire a professional photographer in the future. However, with some normal photos, i was able to get 2.5 matches a day on OkCupid (I dont remember the combination of photos I used). Now, on other dating apps like Bumble, I don't get a lot of matches. I'm naturally very good at texting, I also are good at conversations, so I voicemessage the girls. So the issue is that I'm not able yo exploit my undestanding of women's psichology and the good texting because I dont have the opportunity = I dont get matches. What can I do?
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Depends on your pics. Your decent looking, but definitely would benefit from dropping your BMI and putting on some muscle. Three-sixmonths of work in the gym, edgy clothing, and new pics, and I would say you should be seeing some decent results
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Hello, what is "decent results" (in numbers)? I get about 0.5 matches a day: 1 every 2 days (depends on the app though).
Do you think that if I lift and lose weight, and take good pictures I can get about 3 to 5 matches a day? is that a reasonable number for my face?
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idk. depends on the market you're in. no matter what, you'll see better results than you do now. Besides just online dating, losing fat and getting to the gym is good for your health, physically, mentally, and emotionally. No reason to speculate around matches. Just do it