How many matches do you guys get a day, or a week? My photos are not the best, I'll have to hire a professional photographer in the future. However, with some normal photos, i was able to get 2.5 matches a day on OkCupid (I dont remember the combination of photos I used). Now, on other dating apps like Bumble, I don't get a lot of matches. I'm naturally very good at texting, I also are good at conversations, so I voicemessage the girls. So the issue is that I'm not able yo exploit my undestanding of women's psichology and the good texting because I dont have the opportunity = I dont get matches. What can I do?
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idk. depends on the market you're in. no matter what, you'll see better results than you do now. Besides just online dating, losing fat and getting to the gym is good for your health, physically, mentally, and emotionally. No reason to speculate around matches. Just do it
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I know that doing all those things are good for my health, but I REALLY want to have more matches, that's the main reason why I am in this forum. I use to play rugby and (not a long ago) used to take boxing classes. Maybe if I take 1 or 2 good photos of me training will increase my mathes.
Do you recommend taking professional photos?
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I do. You can get quality pics without a professional, but its more difficult. Spend some time practicing your poses (you want to look relaxed, natural, fun and confident), get some good outfits, and take a shit ton of pics. Most of them will be crap, but you only need a few to look good.