Got this girl’s number at a club. Couldn’t bring her home that night followed up a day later. She’s gonna be out of town til new years want to build some tension in the meantime. Suggestions what to say?
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Got this girl’s number at a club. Couldn’t bring her home that night followed up a day later. She’s gonna be out of town til new years want to build some tension in the meantime. Suggestions what to say?
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I think it’s better you don’t honestly. She’ll be tuned in with family. A high value man would be doing the same not glued to the one girl that’s giving him a response. Just reach back out when you know she’ll be back the next day
“I’m supposed to get a delivery this week, do you know if it’s on route?”
“You done being a good girl for Santa?”
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Makes sense, I've been talking to another girl who seems more interested and I've been more aloof w her and seems to be building tension. thanks for the help.
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I'm in the same situation too with several chicks (i.e. not available anymore till after the holidays), hell i'm sure most people are lol
So I also asked a similar question i.e. should you banter with prospects throughout the holidays, here https://forums.playingfire.com/comments/jhcumlbydi8qj
From the responses, it's basically 1) like what GG fG said, just wait till 2023, or 2) you can lightly banter to keep it warm, i.e. a christmas or NY greeting there and maybe build up the soft close from there
So it's a little conflicting for me as well, but I'm more inclined with 2). Two weeks with zero contact can be a long time, probably wouldn't hurt to get in a cheeky text or two. And when she asks like "hbu how are you spending the holidays", you can tell her you're also swamped with christmas socials and get-togethers etc. as a small DHV