Got this girl’s number at a club. Couldn’t bring her home that night followed up a day later. She’s gonna be out of town til new years want to build some tension in the meantime. Suggestions what to say?
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Got this girl’s number at a club. Couldn’t bring her home that night followed up a day later. She’s gonna be out of town til new years want to build some tension in the meantime. Suggestions what to say?
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I'm in the same situation too with several chicks (i.e. not available anymore till after the holidays), hell i'm sure most people are lol
So I also asked a similar question i.e. should you banter with prospects throughout the holidays, here https://forums.playingfire.com/comments/jhcumlbydi8qj
From the responses, it's basically 1) like what GG fG said, just wait till 2023, or 2) you can lightly banter to keep it warm, i.e. a christmas or NY greeting there and maybe build up the soft close from there
So it's a little conflicting for me as well, but I'm more inclined with 2). Two weeks with zero contact can be a long time, probably wouldn't hurt to get in a cheeky text or two. And when she asks like "hbu how are you spending the holidays", you can tell her you're also swamped with christmas socials and get-togethers etc. as a small DHV
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You can still build the DHV when you text her 2 weeks later. And you’re right it’s a long a time. A long time for her to be left curious and wondering what you’re up to. If you’re value is high enough she’ll double text you and if not guarantee she’ll respond in seconds when you finally pop back in when she hasn’t stopped wondering why you’re the only guy not messaging her.
You know who 2 weeks is also a long time for? Desperate dudes who can’t wait a month with one girl because it’s the only one he’s got. You pick the image you want to give off