Me & Gym girl had been eyeing each other for about a month, 4-5 days out the week. I guess the Holidays made her lonely so a couple days after Christmas she approached me in the area I was working out in to ask how much space I was using, she made an extra comment and we started talking/vibing.. We did a workout together, did a lil flirting then we parted ways.. Couple minutes later I see shes talking to another guy, the guy positions the convo so that it is in my view. She looks a lil embarassed knowing that she just expressed HIGH interest in me but shes entertaining the dude. I assume they exchanged numbers & socials which I did not with her.. Days past and her interest is still Very High with me. I always catch her staring and she makes sure shes gets my attention. Fast Forward to 2 weeks later I notice her & the guy arriving together to the gym, working out together, maybe leaving together.. All the while she still trys to get my attention. Third week she comes in my area again, a convo sparks & she puts my number in her phone a then text me.. The other dude sees us talking and comes in the area we're in, minutes later he cowers and leaves.. Now every time Im talking to gym girl he is somewhere watching and nervous.. He was Not her boyfriend! but was her other option I guess cause I was slow to move things forward WHat should I do next.. ! I'll see her again cause shes a trainer in the gym but I want to build value over text... Should I be DIRECT thru text OR should I be more indirect and just express my interest in her?? OR should I just Drop it, I assume they've had seggs by now, definitely not coming in 2nd... Please help!

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She’s a personal trainer at the gym?? Are you sure she’s not just doing her job and trying to get clients lol
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Yes Im sure.. She has LOTS of clients, while shes "doing her job" shes staring at me while im working out so I KNOW shes interested.
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