Excuse the geeking out on paranormal shit đ ainât too often you find a super attractive girl whoâs into spiritual stuff like this and it was just there as an opener...but yh, as you can see she was super invested in the conversation and then no response. I waited a day before clarifying the âisland girlâ question since not all people get that but no reply yet. Any ideas on how to navigate this one? She may just be caught up with life and work and itâs too soon to try and message again obviously, but I want a solid plan so I donât fumble this due to poor text game like I have done a few times recently. A follow up I thought of was âDidnât realise the ghost hunter could become a ghost as wellâ ? Or is that too confrontational ?
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Straight up, this conversation was not doing anything to move towards a date/meet up. This was a platonic conversation between friends and spent too much time on the topic of spiritual/ghost.
She probably got bored of the conversation or another guy was able to get to her first.
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Yh I should have closed earlier maybe by saying Iâll reveal more stories on our date send me your number etc. But her last message seemed proper engaged still, and tbh what I sent was basically the whole chat so it was still early. I still havenât got a response to my last âif your shyâ takeway on Saturday but sheâs in my list still and hasnt unmatched so maybe Iâll drop one more in a day or two.
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Regardless, I think less chit chat/overly worded messages and just get to the point, move the conversation towards a date, add some flirt/sexual tension.
Right off the bat, your initial response "when I see you" should be "on our date"
When she replied if you've been ghost hunting, instead of taking something so literal/wordy, just say "no, but I would enjoy a cute girl like you as my tour guide" or "yes, I have been, I'm willing to be your handsome ghost tour guide"
(i think you get my point)