Hey bosses, as it says in my profile Im fairly new to this. One thing I have been noticing while using Tinder is a rather long reply time between messages. For me it has been one or two messages back and forth per day with most girls. When they take a long time replying i obviously dont reply immediately either then, just to not appear needy or make the impression that I have nothing going on. Which isnt the case anyways - I just notice messages, emails etc. on my phone quite quickly. However I dont try to match their reply time either (I think that'd be stupid). I get that girls probably get a lot of messages and will take some time to reply + are not on the app constantly. But I still get the impression that there is some ulterior motive behind this - kind of like "playing hard to get". When I see the text convos in Alexs videos for example, it seems like they reply much faster. How is your general experience with reply times?

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When you delay intentionally Alex, how long do you usually leave it, like a day or hours?

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More like a few hours

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