After I’ve had a hookup especially if the girl was good looking and we had great chemistry I tend to catch feelings, to the point where I start to feel abit depressed. It makes things worse because sometimes the girls are just the type for a one night stand so they see other guys too but then that triggers me? Whereas normally it wouldn’t. I really want to continue on in game and I do enjoy it but I can’t deal with these feelings if I keep getting them. Any tips on how to not catch feelings after I’ve hooked up or had a good time with the girl? Thanks I appreciate any help!
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I get what your saying but I don’t mind catching feelings for a good girl, but I’m talking about those one night stand type girls who also see other guys on the side.
I don’t like catching feelings for those types of girls because they aren’t serious and we aren’t going to get into a faithful relationship anyway. So wanted to know if there was a way i could avoid that.
Thanks for the help though will definitely take what you said into mind
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Yeah read/study the bible g (any major religious text really). You feel that way because you choose/want to feel that way. Its as easy as flipping a switch believe it or not. But the sooner you believe it the sooner it will be...
Ps: helpful tip is that you already know what you have to do. I would suspect (could be very wrong) that you deep down know you should tell these girls exactly what you've said here or sum similar but you don't want to come off a certain way/ experience the negative "emotion" associated with it. Doing whatever that it is you know you should do but wont is the key, i think...