So as a beginner ; I am getting over my approach anxiety! I got rejected 4 times today because they have boyfriends with them but it was hard to understand that they are dating or not. I got 6 numbers in 20 min. Also I always went for the 8 or above and the thing that I realized that sure there are so many girls out there ho gon reject but also there are so many who is down for a good time but the thing that I don't understand is; the big deal is getting the number or being able to close? Because I make my intent clear and when I get the number I say that '' Well if you behave we might go on a date sometime'' they laugh and shit then I leave. On my last post, I talked about the situation that I got in; it was on a date with a girl who has a bf and everything was going good yet I pussy out to kiss close her. So I set up a date with another girl for Thursday to my house to cook and drink wine etc. This time I really want to seal the deal or even if I can not have sex I want to be able to kiss.Ps: I am a virgin. What could be the date structure for a house date?
21 Posts (+7), 38 Cmts (+8)
Ayyyy thanks man to be honest big thanks to you because you encouraged me to keep going by telling me where am I doing wrong with all your honesty. But every day the first approach gives me so much anxiety like after the first one I kinda relax but the first a few are always pain in the ass for me. I hope I can get over it by time and I totally understood your game structure. So if she is down to come then she knows wassup. I have to keep it chill and escalate and don't try to make every little detail so perfect.
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I have huge respect for you, I've done lots of approaches over the years but still am afraid to go up to a girl. Well done 6 numbers in 20 minutes.
Having the courage to do it despite it being a pain in the ass is amazing man. If the girl already agreed to come over you don't have to worry that much about doing everything perfectly.
21 Posts (+7), 38 Cmts (+8)
Man thanks a lot.I really appreciate your comment and honesty and tbh it made me feel hell lot better now.I couldnt close one even yet but I think it is because I am kinda shy like people say that I have a potential(not trying to flatter myself bc Ion think I do but people think that) but I just pussy out easily.