Hi, matched with a girl on OkC and got her number quickly, straight onto whatsapp and saucy photos/pics exchange. Now she’s flakey and am wondering, after a bit of attempted re-engagement, what to do next. Picked this up after we’d exchanged pics/vids etc: FRIDAY 1am Me: What’s your schedule like this weekend Her: This weekend I have plans Her: But next week I’m more free Her: Did you make a video for me btw ;) Me: Sounds good I’ll chat to you later and we’ll sort a day. I gotta hit the hay am up for work <<<< MISTAKE, SHOULD’VE SORTED A DAY Me: In the meantime ya I got you another vid Her: All good Her: Sounds good Her: Hehe okay Me: Vid Me: Send me something nice to wake up to, night 10HRS LATER Me: Morning gorgeous Me: Where’s my something nice to wake up to 🤔 Me: Which tube are you closest to? SUNDAY 3PM Me: Gosling meme Me: What’s your schedule like this week? TUESDAY 1PM Me: If you’re too nervous, I’d understand TUESDAY 9PM Her: Hey :) Her: How are you? TUESDAY 11PM Me: All good mainly getting work done Me: Perhaps you can be my distraction
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Stop sending her vids and pics. Don't be her sexting buddy. Btw the double texting after 10 hours was a bad idea and the "morning gorgeous" was even worse. Don't chase and validate her so much. If she doesn't respond again imo it's call out time.
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So I waited a few days then did a call out this morning, she replied this evening and am just wondering exactly how to get the meet back on track:
Me: I genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type
Her: Hey!
Her: So sorry sad emoji
Her: I've been busy
Her: How are you?
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Ya don’t know why I put morning gorgeous I never write that, lol weak sauce