Hi, matched with a girl on OkC and got her number quickly, straight onto whatsapp and saucy photos/pics exchange. Now she’s flakey and am wondering, after a bit of attempted re-engagement, what to do next. Picked this up after we’d exchanged pics/vids etc:
FRIDAY 1am
Me: What’s your schedule like this weekend
Her: This weekend I have plans
Her: But next week I’m more free
Her: Did you make a video for me btw ;)
Me: Sounds good I’ll chat to you later and we’ll sort a day. I gotta hit the hay am up for work <<<< MISTAKE, SHOULD’VE SORTED A DAY
Me: In the meantime ya I got you another vid
Her: All good
Her: Sounds good
Her: Hehe okay
Me: Vid
Me: Send me something nice to wake up to, night
10HRS LATER
Me: Morning gorgeous
Me: Where’s my something nice to wake up to 🤔
Me: Which tube are you closest to?
SUNDAY 3PM
Me: Gosling meme
Me: What’s your schedule like this week?
TUESDAY 1PM
Me: If you’re too nervous, I’d understand
TUESDAY 9PM
Her: Hey :)
Her: How are you?
TUESDAY 11PM
Me: All good mainly getting work done
Me: Perhaps you can be my distraction
Stop sending her vids and pics. Don't be her sexting buddy. Btw the double texting after 10 hours was a bad idea and the "morning gorgeous" was even worse. Don't chase and validate her so much. If she doesn't respond again imo it's call out time.
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So I waited a few days then did a call out this morning, she replied this evening and am just wondering exactly how to get the meet back on track:
Me: I genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type
Her: Hey!
Her: So sorry sad emoji
Her: I've been busy
Her: How are you?
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Ya don’t know why I put morning gorgeous I never write that, lol weak sauce
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"if your too nervous, i totally understand"