Hey all, I am new here to the PWF Forums. Matched with this girl on Hinge in September, she was moving into my part of town in October. Come October I hit her up and we went on a date last Thursday to get drinks and ended up having sex on the first date. She texts me as soon as she got home saying she had a great time and I replied saying I did too. Next day I had to travel back to my hometown to visit family but on Sunday before I left my home town I texted her asking what her schedule is like this coming week. No response to this day. Was looking to see if people think its a good idea to hit her up Thursday or Friday this week and what might be a good way to phrase the follow up? Or if I should just leave it and wait for her to respond? Curious what you guys think - open to feedback and criticism.
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Great. Fantastic. Love to see it man. Good good good all around.
I would say something to the effect of sounds great and let's shoot for Sunday. She's non committal on Saturday so don't even offer it. But she sounds enthusiasticly still on board with seeing you again do that's awesome, try to work out logistics from a strong frame. Hell yeah man!
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Can't thank you enough for the advice dude. Can and would love to continue to keep you posted if you'd like.
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Hey man just wanted ask for your help again. She texted me today and she canceled. I don't know whether I should try to ask for a meet up again seeing as how she didn't ask to reschedule. Don't wanna be needy or anything. Any ideas on how to approach this?
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"ah that's a bummer, but I understand. Bar crawls can be rough like that. How did yesterday go for you?"
Not butthurt yet honest and subtly puts her in a supplication frame to qualify that she didnt get too sloppy drunk yesterday, while giving her a chance to clarify that it perhaps wasn't the bar crawl but something else Is up. If a girl knows sex is "expected" it takes more for her to get motivated to meet - if genuine interest is super high she still will, but her interest in you seems kinda moderate imo. Yeah do not suggest a reschedule right now, just vibe and show a bit of kindness from a strong frame while also qualifying her. Good luck