Met a girl in grad school. Says she has a boyfriend, won't give me her number or social media. But always tries to talk to me and get my attention which I understand cuz that dude is not here. But she always waits til the time I'm leaving and happens to show up at the same place everyday where I get on the bus stop. Not sure if she is just wasting my time for attention or she just wants to hook up low key without anyone finding out? She is always looking nice when she tries talking to me.
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I get that yea but its impossible to tell man. If i had to guess she probably finds u attractive and wants attention . Happened to me with my friends girlfriend and as soon as i gave her validation (said she seems smart and is attractive cuz she was constantly asking me) then she stopped lol
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damn yea, i think this happens to me all the time. this smokeshow wanted my attention, and then I hit her up and texting. I thought she was single and then her boyfriend hits me up in middle of the night. I am not sure why but I keep hitting on girls with boyfriends on accident. How does one tell if a girl is single besides asking them? I think my problem is I talk to girls who are usually alone. and the girls that are single are hanging with other people.
Idk, I need to stop talking to girls who are taken lollll
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
I never ask, I don't care. If I know the dude, or if I know the dude is a cop or something, then I won't escalate. It's none of my business if she wants to step out on her LTR or even marriage. Vast majority of guys have no idea how much long term married women absolutely crave the idea of cheating. They get bored too after a few years tops. I met a Christian woman (lol!) last Saturday night around midnight, friend of a female friend of mine, not even that hot just sorta cute, saying drunkenly that if she wasn't married, ooh look at Life Skills (to her friend), how she's been married 16 years and is bored (couldn't find the words, so I did and she just nodded), then she goes onto say she wants an open marriage but he doesn't.
Can you imagine being that poor guy, his wife in a bar on a SAT night telling me this shit?
Women are entirely amoral creatures. And yet I still get triggered by flaking lol, I should know better. But I couldn't care less if a woman is cheating with me, again - unless I know the bf/husband etc.
Personally my only ethic is I would never bang a friend's wife or girlfriend. Everything else, well... all's fair in love and war