Wanted to ask here mostly as a point of learning. So far in this short exchange, I've tried to add some potential leads ins for sexualising the conversation, or at least make it funny/interesting. She's been responding, but only quite flatly. I've got David's bio and tried the messaging technique by adding 'booty massage' in my list of hobbies... didn't bite at all. I'm wondering, from guys who are far more proficient at texting than myself, how would you approach the next few messages. My feeling is that if I keep trying to drop in subtle sexual hints and build on it from there (as I usually would), it will start to look desperate and weird. On the other hand I can see this being stuck as a really boring chit chat conversation which fizzles out and lead to nothing. I'm torn on this one, and others like it. What do you think, keep pushing it, or go the boring route for a few more messages? I'd love to know the mindset to approaching exchanges like this.

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Much appreciated for your time and response man. Totally agreed, it's definitely one of my more dull conversations which just so happens to be with one of my hottest matches.

I ended up simply asking her if she was looking for anything specific on tinder. Two days later, her response is "Not really. I'm quite open to whatever... are u?"

How might you proceed to flip this exchange into one with more excitement?

Normally, I use the "kinky sex and cuddles" response to that question. Not sure how appropriate it is here?

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I think you can go with something like "Nothing specific. But I do enjoy good chemistry and the occasional cuddle"

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Everything you say seems to just work perfect. Her response: "Haha nice. That sounds like something I'm down for"

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