I think almost everything was going smooth and suddenly got ghosted. I've attached some screenshots leading up to the close.
Would love to hear your thoughts guys
Thanks!
Lol you're overcomplicating this. Here's what you do:
Tell her to come by your place and text you when she's there. Meet her and tell her to hop in your car cause some people are over. Just do it and be cool about it, if she's dtf she will follow your lead. Then you turn on some music and make moves in the car. If you don't have a car, ask your parents to borrow theirs. I've done this exact thing over 50 times, almost always works.
Don't make it seem like you don't have a place available when you text girls. Always just say you have your own place. The point is to get them to come out to you. Once you've gotten them there, the rest is easy.
You could try calling her or just a low investment text saying "hey wyd tonight"
Just a tip- you're texting her way too much and your texts could be way shorter; get to the point, short and sweet
I never thought of this... I’m always driving near the girls’ place because I thought it would make them more likely to meet up since there’s almost zero effort on their end.
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Lol you're overcomplicating this. Here's what you do:
Tell her to come by your place and text you when she's there. Meet her and tell her to hop in your car cause some people are over. Just do it and be cool about it, if she's dtf she will follow your lead. Then you turn on some music and make moves in the car. If you don't have a car, ask your parents to borrow theirs. I've done this exact thing over 50 times, almost always works.
Don't make it seem like you don't have a place available when you text girls. Always just say you have your own place. The point is to get them to come out to you. Once you've gotten them there, the rest is easy.
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Thanks Jon! Cant believe I didnt think of this lol. Will definitely be trying this in the future.
Any tips how to revive this conversation though. Or is this one a leave it and learn
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It seems kind of fucked but its worth a try.
You could try calling her or just a low investment text saying "hey wyd tonight"
Just a tip- you're texting her way too much and your texts could be way shorter; get to the point, short and sweet
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I never thought of this... I’m always driving near the girls’ place because I thought it would make them more likely to meet up since there’s almost zero effort on their end.
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Damn, this is actually a lit strategy. Thanks brother.
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I brought girls over when I lived with my parents all the time. My room was on the other side of the house luckily