How to hard close when I live with my parents and her place is not an option?

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I think almost everything was going smooth and suddenly got ghosted. I've attached some screenshots leading up to the close.

Would love to hear your thoughts guys

Thanks!

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sirdanny v Avatar

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What Jon Doe, said. & it does work because I’ve done it many times. You have to use Plausible Deniability.

Plausible Deniability is a bullshit excuse to lead her back home or any place really, but in a way that doesn’t come off as in you saying to her...

  • ”Hey let’s go back to my pad & fuck!”

Instead you tell her something to the effect of like for example:

  • ”Hey, my bad I have some people over. Let’s just get out of here & go for a drive.”

Believe you me 10/10 she will follow & know it’s ”Car Sex” especially if there’s Chemistry/Connection she’ll be cool about it.

”Stop complicating your life with little details like this & justifying why you’re doing it.”

PS: Make sure you find a very Secluded area to park that will make her feel comfortable. Lol. Unless you’re both into Exhibitionism.

Hope this helps :)

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Love this concept. Giving it a term really drives it home!

I always feel like I'm being too logical and complicating things.. gotta break that habit

Thanks Eric

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J

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Lol you're overcomplicating this. Here's what you do:

Tell her to come by your place and text you when she's there. Meet her and tell her to hop in your car cause some people are over. Just do it and be cool about it, if she's dtf she will follow your lead. Then you turn on some music and make moves in the car. If you don't have a car, ask your parents to borrow theirs. I've done this exact thing over 50 times, almost always works.

Don't make it seem like you don't have a place available when you text girls. Always just say you have your own place. The point is to get them to come out to you. Once you've gotten them there, the rest is easy.

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Thanks Jon! Cant believe I didnt think of this lol. Will definitely be trying this in the future.

Any tips how to revive this conversation though. Or is this one a leave it and learn

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J

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It seems kind of fucked but its worth a try.

You could try calling her or just a low investment text saying "hey wyd tonight"
Just a tip- you're texting her way too much and your texts could be way shorter; get to the point, short and sweet

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C

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I never thought of this... I’m always driving near the girls’ place because I thought it would make them more likely to meet up since there’s almost zero effort on their end.

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Damn, this is actually a lit strategy. Thanks brother.

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I brought girls over when I lived with my parents all the time. My room was on the other side of the house luckily

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