I played it off with humour, but what do you guys think? Tbh I find it a bit disrespectful given our back story. For context, I matched this girl in February, we had good convo but we couldnāt arrange the date because our schedules didnāt match and then it dragged on and she started to avoid it. She eventually ghosted me but I revived it a few days ago and our convo has been good. This one threw me off a bit lol. Aināt happened before. Maybe Iām overthinking it, but the fact that she avoided a date before, but I was persistent, then she says this, tells me sheās not truly interested like that, since she was very picky on where we go for the date as well, when most girls donāt care and will just meet up for some basic stuff. Iām contemplating ditching this one tbh, I donāt tolerate dumb shit like this and itās been a hassle to meet up with her anyway. I just didnt want to come off butthurt, but I ended up calling her out saying she was disrespectful and unmatched her on the app. On to the next one.

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š thatās pretty good.
Iāve not texted her for a few days, btw the last exchanges are at the bottom of this thread in case you didnāt see it. I donāt know if my response was a bit abrupt, I just really donāt want to be spending time with somebody whoās not really up for it. Then it kinda becomes a situation where sheās basically saying āok Iāve given you a chance to impress me now what?ā
What is your personal opinion on the comment she made, and what kind of tone to set if I do reengage? Itās the first time itās ever happened, usually Iām good with banter but when you factor in the ghosting she done weeks ago, it makes you think twice.
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"I'm not worried one bit. Hope you're quite charming as well"
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I managed to get this one turned around. We went back and forth for a bit but I won her over in the end. Letās see if we can finalise the date now.