I do Uber as a main gig and its a great way to meet girls and to open semi warm sets. Met this girl picking her up at a bar and got her number. I used alot of sexual banter and playful teasing while hitting on her and got some initial interest. Got her number and as she left we shook hands. I lightly kissed her hand as she left and she blushed. The next day I re opened via text and got some initial interest in meeting up but when i escalated sexually via text she went ghost. How should I re open?
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If I were uglier I would definitely agree with you but Im pretty calibrated and good looking enough to get away with saying the things I do. Ive never had a complaint or a negative interaction and ive harvest dozens of number closes and 2 hard closes through this avenue. Either way if I lose the job I have other avenues I can go down. Either way im not asking for general life advice on how to handle my professional life, im asking with advice with regards to this specific interaction, so feedback with regards to that specifically would be more appreciated. Thanks for the "advice" tho.
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Yea i think its totally fine what ur doing, its a great way to meet girls tbh. Only mystake you made was you went 0-100 with sexualizing over text, it kinda came out of nowhere. Honestly i dunno how i'd reopen her.. probably would just say "i was just kidding, sorry if you took it the wrong way. So do you like doing P.T.?" or "what got you into P.T.?" soomething like that.
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Thanks for the input, ill try that