I do Uber as a main gig and its a great way to meet girls and to open semi warm sets. Met this girl picking her up at a bar and got her number. I used alot of sexual banter and playful teasing while hitting on her and got some initial interest. Got her number and as she left we shook hands. I lightly kissed her hand as she left and she blushed. The next day I re opened via text and got some initial interest in meeting up but when i escalated sexually via text she went ghost. How should I re open?
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44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
I hate to be negative but bro what you're doing - your whole MO here - I think it's a recipe for disaster. Even if you don't give a shit about keeping your gig driving, you're under the authority of a woke corporation and you're getting heavily sexual with your banter with female customers?! Sorry man, but I think this is STUPID and you oughta stop this IMMEDIATELY.
Maybe you could dial it way back and still throw out invitations to female customers, but let them primarily escalate and be carefully calibrated to what they're comfortable with.
I honestly don't even think this girl is interested at all. Probably thinking she can get free rides for her & her friends from you if she strings you along.
Man - you need a whole change of perspective. Total 180. Wish you the best.
Yes this girl may be on the lower interest side but I don't see why would you assume or even think she would be trying to get free rides. In another post, you also said a girl probably wanted to use him for a free meal when she asked him to go out for food. Maybe you've had bad experiences with girls using you for things, but it's pointless to be thinking of these things. You should be always be focusing on yourself/your game and if she happens to be using you, then cut her but not self-sabotage a potential lead with it before.
14 Posts (+2), 48 Cmts (+16)
If I were uglier I would definitely agree with you but Im pretty calibrated and good looking enough to get away with saying the things I do. Ive never had a complaint or a negative interaction and ive harvest dozens of number closes and 2 hard closes through this avenue. Either way if I lose the job I have other avenues I can go down. Either way im not asking for general life advice on how to handle my professional life, im asking with advice with regards to this specific interaction, so feedback with regards to that specifically would be more appreciated. Thanks for the "advice" tho.
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Yea i think its totally fine what ur doing, its a great way to meet girls tbh. Only mystake you made was you went 0-100 with sexualizing over text, it kinda came out of nowhere. Honestly i dunno how i'd reopen her.. probably would just say "i was just kidding, sorry if you took it the wrong way. So do you like doing P.T.?" or "what got you into P.T.?" soomething like that.
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"Sup planner"