Little context here... I’m trying to set a date. I picked a wine she said she doesn’t like it I replied with “oh I’m sure we can still have a fun time with a glass of milk”, I double texted with “if you’re into that sort of thing” after 2 days.... check the pic for the rest. I’m thinking of saying “Funny! What’s your schedule like?” - This just moves the convo forward, instead of talking about something silly What do you think about my reply? Any other reply and reason behind it? (So I know what to do next time or in a similar situation)
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it depends on the situation, but gerneally im saying that when she asks, typically the girl the day before the meet will ask when do you want to meet, at that point i give her the infamous line "my romantic balcony" etc
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Do you think it's more successful to get the girl to your place by first getting number and personal texting her then setting the date time and telling her you want to meet at your place rather than doing it up front? I've had lots of women to my place doing it up front but also have had women who didn't want to come to my place... Seems when I tried it the former way got alot more hesitation so maybe it was my energy since I was used to doing it the other way
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i think there might be a slight advantage to doing it over text, but i think it has more to do with the fact the girl has invested much more by that point. Rather using the medium you'r using to communicate. The more likely the invested the girl the more likely she will comply with what you propose. i have had multiple situations where the girl declined to get her to come over, but later on got a lot more investment from her and she later accepted the invite.