Little context here... I’m trying to set a date. I picked a wine she said she doesn’t like it I replied with “oh I’m sure we can still have a fun time with a glass of milk”, I double texted with “if you’re into that sort of thing” after 2 days.... check the pic for the rest. I’m thinking of saying “Funny! What’s your schedule like?” - This just moves the convo forward, instead of talking about something silly What do you think about my reply? Any other reply and reason behind it? (So I know what to do next time or in a similar situation)
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i think there might be a slight advantage to doing it over text, but i think it has more to do with the fact the girl has invested much more by that point. Rather using the medium you'r using to communicate. The more likely the invested the girl the more likely she will comply with what you propose. i have had multiple situations where the girl declined to get her to come over, but later on got a lot more investment from her and she later accepted the invite.
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really can you explain in detail "i have had multiple situations where the girl declined to get her to come over, but later on got a lot more investment from her and she later accepted the invite. "
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