I have a video where I walk you through exactly how to do it , step by step. What you are doing is going to be largely a waste of time. That time would be better spent increasing your income so you can move into the city. I have been where you are, and I would do this public dates where I would try to pull to the girl's place, And, occasionally it worked. But, it is very sub-optimal. While you are trying to improve your living situation, I would practice doing what I mentioned earlier on Tinder.