To be frank, I don't see a HIGH likelihood of pulling this back, but it is possible so long as she has a relative attraction for you already. The match was a good start obviously, your texting just wasn't calibrated to her I think. She probably gets that kind of stuff a lot so you need to come at her with something new, unique, refreshing even.. With that said, I would give it a couple days and hit her with something like "Didn't take you for a shy girl/woman.." usually they will respond because they perceive that as a negative trait in this day and age.. just working with scraps here. If something else comes to mind, I'll come back to this thread. Also, I realized one other thing on this thread. I think you may have been able to prompt her to be more likely to respond if instead of saying 'You're just my type' (<- because this is extremely obvious to her, otherwise you wouldn't have matched her), you should've followed up by saying "You seem to have some of my weaknesses..." and go from there.
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Do you think there’s a way to come back and move away from this then?
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To be frank, I don't see a HIGH likelihood of pulling this back, but it is possible so long as she has a relative attraction for you already. The match was a good start obviously, your texting just wasn't calibrated to her I think. She probably gets that kind of stuff a lot so you need to come at her with something new, unique, refreshing even.. With that said, I would give it a couple days and hit her with something like "Didn't take you for a shy girl/woman.." usually they will respond because they perceive that as a negative trait in this day and age.. just working with scraps here. If something else comes to mind, I'll come back to this thread. Also, I realized one other thing on this thread. I think you may have been able to prompt her to be more likely to respond if instead of saying 'You're just my type' (<- because this is extremely obvious to her, otherwise you wouldn't have matched her), you should've followed up by saying "You seem to have some of my weaknesses..." and go from there.
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Makes sense! The weaknesses line has not been working for me so, I liked your initial comment about stating something obvious.