We met up once at a nice Italian bistro near her hotel, where she stays weeknights north of me. Weekends she's south of me with her dog and 22 year old daughter. We went back to her hotel lobby and had one more drink, her adult daughter was texting her to make sure she was behaving lol but we had a great make out session with some built in humor around a concierge seeing us. Back on bumble I told her what a great time I had and she replied the same, then we moved to texting. She's a bit older than me but looks amazing. She's definitely more of a traditional career woman than I usually date but she was super into me, investment and connection and now, nothing. We even talked how ghosting sucks and it's so easy to show basic courtesy to anyone who isn't a horrible date. Anyway important to note All that happened before this text thread started Advice??
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Possible that all the previous texts turned her off too much.. If a women knows she ignored 3 of your texts in a row and still gets ;morning, thinking of you; thats gonna turn a lot of them off IMO. You will get them next time tiger!
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Thanks man, yeah I'll do it differently next time. Still very weird because we had a real connection, lots of deeply personal conversation, walls and walls of text, talked about how ghosting any halfway decent person is shitty to do, etc. I will def write LESS than a woman who writes like Toni does, complete agreement that it's just better game and better for frame
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It always sucks when you have a connection and then POOF.. the dating world is really messed up these days
She was a crappy person anyway if she didnt respond to any of ur nice texts or to Jans very good takeaway for this situation.. Especially if you 2 talked about how much it sucks to be ghosted and then she does it to you🤦♂️ you deserve a better women then her anyway man