Approx. last week on tinder I came across this girl. She superliked me, as I was just before flying out to my vacation I went in a little more risky then usual and tried for a lay that day. She seemed very receptive but it didn't work out. I left it for my vacation and reengaded after the vacation with the Ryan Gosling meme. Set up another date. I think solid comfort building and sexting happened and it all looked good until before the day of the date. Where she basically flakes with a bullshit excuse. I am aware that its highly possible, that these personal reasons exists. Still fuck this. She apparently can't even give me the smallest details, so I am annoyed AF now. Accedently called her on Whats App while transcribing the voice memos, so she now additionally wrote "I think you called me by mistake?". Should I proceed it, as there is already alot of investment? If so, how can I without loosing the frame and power. She already is very bratty and showing any kind of weakness I feel like can get capitalized on. Also can you give me general feedback. For example I tried to leave out the gaminess but maybe some parts are still to gamey, which I am not aware of. Stuff like this. You can check out my insta under: @semihzerdeli Have a good and successful day fellas!

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I think I like the idea with the takeaway. Let's me keep the power dynamic and as she's already invested alot, chances of her just saying no are somewhat slim I guess.
Anyhow, her excuse I find was very bullshitty. It was also just a take it or leave it excuse, without any indication of rescheduling the date that we have planned for a week.
"So I won't really have anytime soon".
Waiting for some more feedback, but really liking your idea.
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let us know how it goes
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Well tried it but then left it at that, as I saw no more reason to pursue it and wouldn't be integral to what I just said.
Me: "Yes, I did. So here's the deal. If you want to make definite plans anytime soon to get together, let's do that. Otherwise you're not gonna hear from me again."
Her: "Unfortunately, like I said, I can't make definite plan anytime soon :) Sorry"