Approx. last week on tinder I came across this girl. She superliked me, as I was just before flying out to my vacation I went in a little more risky then usual and tried for a lay that day. She seemed very receptive but it didn't work out. I left it for my vacation and reengaded after the vacation with the Ryan Gosling meme. Set up another date. I think solid comfort building and sexting happened and it all looked good until before the day of the date. Where she basically flakes with a bullshit excuse. I am aware that its highly possible, that these personal reasons exists. Still fuck this. She apparently can't even give me the smallest details, so I am annoyed AF now. Accedently called her on Whats App while transcribing the voice memos, so she now additionally wrote "I think you called me by mistake?". Should I proceed it, as there is already alot of investment? If so, how can I without loosing the frame and power. She already is very bratty and showing any kind of weakness I feel like can get capitalized on. Also can you give me general feedback. For example I tried to leave out the gaminess but maybe some parts are still to gamey, which I am not aware of. Stuff like this. You can check out my insta under: @semihzerdeli Have a good and successful day fellas!

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some feedback, you could’ve tried calling her the first night you wanted her to come over. I feel like it got a bit too sexual. I think she got your frame that you are a sexual guy early on but you went too far with it. she probably masturbated to your texts and then when the day of the date came she wasn’t feeling sexual so flaked. I think you need to send a takeaway now. something like “if you want to make definite plans to get together let’s do that. otherwise you’ll never hear from me again”
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I think I like the idea with the takeaway. Let's me keep the power dynamic and as she's already invested alot, chances of her just saying no are somewhat slim I guess.
Anyhow, her excuse I find was very bullshitty. It was also just a take it or leave it excuse, without any indication of rescheduling the date that we have planned for a week.
"So I won't really have anytime soon".
Waiting for some more feedback, but really liking your idea.
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let us know how it goes