We matched on bumble a couple months ago. Number closed. Was gonna set up date and she said she was busy that week. I asked what her schedule was the next week. No response. Waited a week texted her again. No response. A couple weeks ago I saw her at my gym but it’s a big gym so we didn’t really run into each other. Neither of us said hi but she was close enough for me to notice her and I was a couple machines over and side eyed her looking at me. Seen her there 3 times already. No interaction. Today I saw her again wearing some tight booty shorts. I was gonna go up to her at the water fountain and say hi or something along the lines of “hey don’t I know you from somewhere?” But she went to the locker room and then left. There’s clearly an elephant in the room but also I don’t want to pursue someone who ghosted me. Our make things awkward at my gym. Maybe it’s best I just lift weights and ignore her. What do you think?

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Elonn Mussk Avatar

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Utsav Biswas Avatar

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Umm i guess i would have just open her with "aah here you are and i thought you got kidnapped by aliens" and she is going to ask what then u can tell her we had good chemistry over bumble but did not heard back from her . I believe humour with calling her out is gonna work too

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Elonn Mussk Avatar

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I can see your point.

But okay let’s pretend I say that. What do you think her excuse will be for ghosting me?

What am I supposed to accomplish out of the conversation? Ask her out for a drink again?

I take it she ghosted me for a reason. It’s gonna be an uphill battle to bring her back in I think.

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Utsav Biswas Avatar

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I would not ask her out again for a few days but will keep bantering with her and then maybe hit her up with " listen we really have good chemistry and connection but we should get to know each other over drinks" now if she rejects you then u dont need to waste ur time by having small talk with her

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