So I had a park date last week for an hour and a half where I didn't sexualize (embarrassing, yes). I texted her a funny reference from the date a few days later but didn't expect her to actually reply, but she did. Is it going to be weird if I start flirty/sexual banter after a platonic engagement? I was thinking of doing something like "Can I be honest" and start sexualizing a bit by referencing the first date. I'm looking to hear any other ideas of how you guys have recovered after a sub-par first date. Thanks as always for the help!
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You gotta take risks. Period. Honestly, I feel like if you're not getting rejected sometimes, you're probably not taking on enough risk. Truth is, you'll try to kiss and get shut down sometimes. But after that.... you'll still be alive. Ain't no thing Papi.
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Agreed in principle completely. I just need more field practice...