Hey, so I met a girl at a club on Sunday's (it's popular on Sunday nights) near the beach. After the club closed at 2 we went swimming, and she was topless and it was really relaxed and cool. I didn't drink much, so I drove her to a pancake restaurant after and got food with her. It was really nice and she kept staring at me with glazed eyes and pulling me in to kiss her and cuddling up to me and stuff. I had work early the next morning and she lived on the other side of town, so I couldn't go to her place and she couldn't come to mine either because of work. I got her number and facebook and I texted her this: The next day: Me: Thanks for last night! I had a great time! šŸ˜ Her a few hours after: Aha yeah it was fun Me 3 days later: Hey I might be going to town on Saturday or on Sunday , you reckon you might go? Her: Hey, sorry I'm not going out this weekend got work Me: Ahh damn that sucks, maybe we can meet up another time? She didn't respond Me 5 days later: Oh no you've been kidnapped!? 😱 Don't worry I'll save you!! I hope they've been feeding you! I'll bring chocolate... Or do you prefer ice-cream? Her an hour later: Ahha Nah Im all good Not sure if it's a shit test or if she genuinely doesnt wanna text. What's your advice? I was thinking about saying something along the lines of "oh so you'd prefer that weird pancake, tomato and maple syrup combo from the ?" because she had that and we had a joke that she likes weird foods. Any advice on what I should do?

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You are missing the elephant in the room: you pulled the chick form a club, who was skinny dipping with you , and trying to make out with you..... She wanted to bang ... And you didn't make it happened. it is as simple as that . I was there myself several times when I first got into game . Unfortunately, when you don't pull the trigger , chicks loose massive respect and no amount of text game is likely to save it.
By the time you sent her your first text, you were already playing the loosing game. At this point, I would just learn from your mistake and make sure not to repeat in the future.

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Agreed. But it also seems like you need to improve your text game.

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That is definitely true as well. I just didn't want to throw too much stuff on him at once.

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